Attraction Magic

Add Your Own Flair to Any Routine When Approaching Women

bradpua — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 10:27:52 +0000

Hey, man. Maybe you’ve been trying to seduce girls for a time now and still get more rejections from really hot babes than you care to admit. And, I bet that if you’re going to be perfectly frank about it, you haven’t really nailed a conversation with a girl you want to date, and ended up going after a woman who seemed more accommodating. If you’re worrying about approaching women, particularly the “difficult”, beautiful ones that you really want, you might be doing things wrong.

Now, you might tell me that your routine is good because you’ve seen it in action and it works! I won’t argue with that. What I can tell you, though, is that the guy’s personality factored in the equation more than the routine itself. Read on …

How to Add Your Flair to Any Pick Up Routine – Two Tips

1. Have Fun

Approaching women does not need to be contrived or super serious. I know you need to show dominance and all, but believe me, girls have their own ideas. As soon as you approach a hot girl with a determined, grim look on your face, she will turn on the witch switch and bust your routine on the spot. You see, women expect men to come up to them with something that’s supposed to make them feel giddy with excitement, but most of the time, the whole approach lacks personality and another crucial element…. FUN.

If girls enjoy your company, they feel safe around you. In fact, they will drop their guards completely, which spells “green light” in big, bold letters. Laughing with women, exchanging jokes and letting them poke fun at you will get you far as far as your seduction game is concerned.

2. Be Fascinating

You can be fascinating without being a try hard. Show some talent, man! Most of the time, the good looking girls you meet know most of the “old” routines anyway, so you have to bring something new to the table. Fortunately, there are relatively easy ways to entertain women and guarantee yourself their full attention. Go to the puma website to learn how.

Three Strategies on How to Pick Up Girls

bradpua — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 10:22:09 +0000

One of the best ways to learn how to pick up girls is to master the art of courting attention. You need women to focus on you, look at you, check you out, and be curious about you. You can only do this by increasing your value. When you increase your value, women will see you in a different light.

Here are three strategies on how to pick up girls using the principle of courting attention.

1. Be Friendly

The fundamental skill you must master is being friendly to everyone around. Apply the ABCs of being sociable: always be cordial and always be charming. Don’t worry about gender for now. Be friendly with everyone, even men. You never know who these people can introduce you to, and it doesn’t hurt to be on the good side of everyone in the party. Remember, social proof is a strange thing. Girls love men who are well-accepted by the crowd.

2. Be interesting

Always have a story or a magic trick up your sleeve whenever you talk to a girl. Women in general tend to judge men instantly. This is one of the secrets of learning how to pick up girls. Having something that will pique her curiosity will do you good in the social scene. Show her that there’s more to you than meets the eye so that she will keep coming back for more.

3. Teamwork

No man is truly an island in the dating scene, especially in a party or a club. You need to make friends wherever you are, because guys who don’t socialize, stand around doing nothing, or simply go to parties to ogle at girls are considered creepy. Be likable and gregarious. Don’t hesitate to open a set with guys in it. You never know who can help you improve your game by introducing you to more girls.

If you want to more insights on having fun in a party and how to pick up girls, go to PUMA skills. You will learn more advanced tactics that will increase your charisma around women.

Tips on How to pick up girls

bradpua — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 10:17:54 +0000

Most guys who stress over how to pick up girls spend more time second guessing themselves than simply going out there and trying it out. Look, man. You won’t improve your game much and it might take you years before you learn how to pick up girls if you just sit in front of your PC dreaming of the time you want to spend with beautiful women.

First of all, stop making excuses such as being too preoccupied with work matters, or being too tired after work to socialize, but all these things mean little if you’re driven to improve your social life. I’ll spell it out for you. Any guy can go from being an average nine to five guy to being the chick magnet that women anywhere would die to date.

Your first lesson is learning how to prepare for a night out…

Two Prep Work Methods of Expert Seducers

1. Unwind After Work

If you feel like a mindless robot after work, you might not yet be in the mood to hook up with chicks. What you can do is to jumpstart your mood by relaxing for a while. Getting hyped up too much is doing it wrong. Your mind has to adjust to the different level of stimuli that you get from socializing. Watch comedy or read a poetry book; basically anything that will help you forget about work will do. If you’re still thinking of work, you’ll be a bore in conversation.

2. Socialize

Here’s a secret: not every guy who can start conversations with women are salesmen who do this stuff all day. They just make it a point to talk to everyone they meet, even if it’s just about something mundane like the weather. So now you know, you just have to relax and stay cool when you’re transitioning from work to play. Say hi or hello whenever you can. Smile at your female office worker and ask her how her day is going. Get those conversation juices flowing! Once you get used to relaxing and staying social during the day the way you pick up girls in clubs will improve.

The Secrets to Picking Up Girls With Your Friends

bradpua — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 10:13:11 +0000

Picture this: you’re in a club with at least a hundred beautiful women standing around. You find yourself approaching one girl, then another hotter one crosses your line of vision and you find yourself struggling with the choice…

Let’s face it. There are simply too many women around and you only have limited time to approach them all. In a few hours, some will leave and you’re going to be left with the memory of the smiling glances you weren’t able to respond to.

If you’ve had the same problem in the past, it’s time to consider getting wings. These are your buddies who, like you, are also into picking up girls in parties. You can cover one side of the room, and your buddies can cover the rest. You can all meet at the center and introduce the girls you met to each other (or you can compare notes).

Methods You Can Use When Picking Up Girls With Your Wing Men

Go With a Friend With a Sense of Humor

Important: do not bring a friend who will pull you down and make everything more difficult for you. He should be able to sense your vibe and match it. If you’re going for the kill (you’re delivering your routine), he must be alert enough to toss the ball up for you.

Together, you can open sets with a sense of fun that will make you invincible to women’s negs. Few women can resist two entertaining guys who can make women laugh in sheer delight.

2. Point Out the Not-so-obvious

Your buddy must at least be sober enough to point out a mixed set for you if your instincts are dulling. He can also pull you aside and tell you when your jokes are falling flat on the floor.

Your wing man can pitch an opener so you can enter with a bang. Whether you go with your buddies or you befriend some wings in the party, have fun with it.Picking up girls should be easy when you’re willing to try some new tricks. If you’re ready to ramp up your game, head on over to the PUMA skills website to learn more about pick up.

Attract Girls By Being Different From Other Guys

bradpua — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 07:35:19 +0000

If you’re still having trouble jiving with women, you probably already know that being confident enough to attract girls is not a walk in the park. Here’s the thing, most guys who seem so cool around women are actually like you; nervous, anxious and more than a bit petrified at rejection. But, they know a secret that all men should learn.

Most guys won’t tell you the crucial effect of male body language on women. With that said, if your goal is to attract girls, you must show confident body language even if you’re initially

petrified of getting rejected.

All these boil down to how you can show body language that attracts women. Keep reading…

2 Body Language Strategies That Attract Girls

1. Shift Your Perspective

Body language is the end product of your thoughts. If you cannot control the way you think of yourself while you’re on scene, your manner of walking, standing and talking will reflect all the negative energy brewing inside your brain. Leave the self-bashing and negative introspection at home. When you’re on scene, you have to be at your best, and that means your psyche must be on its A-game, too.

2. This couldn’t be more simple.

It’s human nature to always find an easy way of doing things. It’s all about mental conditioning. The moment you think of attracting women or talking to

women as difficult, your mental game suffers.

The worst thing about a negative mindset is that it slows down your reflexes and makes your body unable to recognize signs of attraction from women.

In order to adopt an open, relaxed and confident body language, think of good things about yourself. Always think of yourself as attractive and your body language will follow. Needless to say, women will start coming on to you soon enough.

Strategies on How to Get Girls

bradpua — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 12:04:05 +0000

If you’re the shy type, you might be wondering how you can overcome that shyness enough to make approaching women a breeze. But, if you’ve got to bust your shyness in time for your party tomorrow or the next day, you have to come up with something fast. Here’s an easy way to learn how to get girls. Get them to come after you.

That’s right. If you can discover how to get girls to notice you and you don’t have to make the first move. The truth is that girls will feel like they’re missing out on something if they don’t approach a classy guy.

Because you’re bashful, they might see you as distant and odd. But, if you do not do anything at all in the next hour or so, they might simply think you’re too uninteresting to talk to, or you’re gay.

Keep reading to discover how to get girls to chase you, rather than doing it the “conventional” way.

Two Helpful Guidelines on How to Get Girls Easily By Being Yourself

#1: Demonstrate the Body Language of an Alpha Guy

You See these “Alpha” guys around and you feel compelled to notice them. These men who look and act like they’re in control are the guys who get all the attention anywhere. Fortunately, any guy around can copy these qualities. If you are in a crowd, be the most outgoing, and make each person take pleasure in your company. Be the leader of your pack and the women will get curious as to why all the men and women alike are so spellbound.

#2. Get Social Proof

When you get in the scene, shake hands, exchange high fives and get people’s attention by being gracious. A girl instantly takes notice of a guy who seems to be well-loved or well-known by the rest of the pack. She will end up wanting to get to know you to find out what makes you so special.

Sad to say, there are some guys who have no idea how to make use of body language to be more magnetic. Ladies intuitively know that a guy is quality. The tips I mentioned here will catapult you from being on her “who is this” list to her “must-have” list instantaneously. If everybody seems to confirm to her that you’re the quality man that everyone wants, she will give her all into trying to get your interest.